Last Sunday night (ie ten days ago) I started to bleed and to cut a long story short I've now had two scans to confirm that my pregnancy, which should have been 9 weeks by now, ended at around 6 weeks.
After waiting for over two hours in my EPU and getting sent out via the antenatal clinic where happy expectant mums clutching bounty packs jostle you for the lift (just cruel) I'm still none the wiser. I know I have three options - to wait for it to happen naturally, to have medical management or a D&C. I'd like to avoid medical intervention if possible (scared of complications basically - shouldn't have googled these) but have come home with nothing - no follow up appointments or advice on what to do, what will happen next or how to manage this. The registrar I saw couldn't recommend anything or talk about the risks, she literally knew nothing and referred me to a leaflet.
I'm pretty upset and just need some reassurance. If you had a MMC, what did you do? How did it work out for you? What would you advise?
Any help gratefully received... either way this is going to be a pretty crap christmas.
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Missed miscarriage - advice needed, hospital have been crap
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nocluenoclueatall · 20/12/2011 17:04
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