I have just had my 2nd mc - at only 6 weeks this time, but it is somehow so much worse than my first one. Then I could think it was a one off, random event - it's really common etc etc, but this time, after allowing myself to feel all the things that a newly pg woman is supposed to feel, excited, happy and lucky, I feel utterly devastated.
My dh has been reallly supportive, focusing on the 2dc's we have, and saying we can try again, but I don't know if I can go through this again. I am not even sure if I need to see my gp after this mc (only happened yesterday, but I know it's gone and not just a bleed) and then what after that? Do I wait a few months or get on with it straight away? I know I am not alone in this, reading the other threads on here (through tears!) is a real comfort, but I have to get through cooking and hosting a big family Fathers day celebration today (no one apart from one close friend knew) and I don't know how I will. Can anyone offer me any advice? I just want to feel like I did two days ago.
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harrietlichman · 19/06/2011 08:11
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