I was supposed to be 11 weeks today and went for a scan this morning to be told there was no heartbeat and the baby had obviously died a couple of days ago as I was only measuring 10.5 weeks.
This is the second baby I've lost. I lost another one when I was 24 weeks back in November last year. That pregnancy was a nightmare from start to finish and I was up at the hospital about twice a week every week.
When I received the results of the autopsy of the last baby they told me that the placenta haddn't formed properly and advised me to take asprin tablets if I ever got pregnant again.
It took me a while to get my head round TTC again and we were really lucky that it happened so quickly for us. This pregnancy seemed fine, no bleeding, although 2 weeks ago they did say there was slight internal bleeding but nothing to be worried about and they were just going to keep a really close eye on me.
Ideally I'd like to go for an ERPC but the first available appointment is in 2 weeks, on the 20th June. I'm disgusted I have to wait that long with my baby still inside me. I don't think I'm strong enough to handle having the mc naturally as I don't want to see the baby. Does that make me a bad person?
The Dr said that medically managed mcs aren't 100% guaranteed to work.
what I'm asking is, has anyone been through similar, where the waiting time is so long between confirmation and appointment time? How have you coped?
I'm so upset right now, and I also feel so numb.
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Just been for scan and told no heartbeat - they can't give me an appt for 2 weeks
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Browncoats · 08/06/2011 13:52
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