This is going to sound so stupid, i had a mc 2 weeks ago, it happened the weekend of my birthday which was the day i had planned to tell my side of the family. My partners famly would of been finding out this weekend as its his dads birthday (we had planned to get a grandad card and sign it with a question mark).
The thing is i feel absolutely fine about the mc (were having a month off then trying again so feel ok with that) but im absolutely hating the fact all these dates are passing me by when id imagined sharing my good news with everyone, its really hard sitting there and all i want to say is hey guess what..... but now i have nothing to share. i spent his brothers birthday last night listening to his mum tell me how much she wants grandkids (we didnt tell her anything at all about pg or mc), so i came home in tears! shes not sympathetic at all and a bit selfish so she wouldnt of probably stopped if she had known anyway, but things people say to me effect me way too much, sorry for rambling but does anyone else think about the things they should/would have been doing if they were pregnant, or am i just weird??
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Need help, im torturing myself for some reason!
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Vix1980 · 23/04/2011 09:17
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