Hello, I feel I need to write things down in the hope it'll help.
I've already got a daughter who'll be three next weekend and conceived her the first month, it took 8 cycles this time (including a chemical preg) but we got our positive on Christmas eve. I felt sick from 6 weeks and really tired, then I started to feel better a few weeks ago. I was a bit worried bcos I'd felt sick all the way thru first time round and I had a nagging feeling at the back of my mind that something wasn't right but my husband persuaded me I was being silly and that all pregs are different. I was still desperate for my dating scan and the letter finally arrived last thurs for next fri. Then about an hour after the letter came I had a tiny bleed, my midwife arranged for a scan yesterday morn. I went along half thinking it'd be fine bcos I'd had a similar experience in my last preg, half terrified bcos this time just felt different. When the radiographer said the baby had stopped growing at 8 weeks the bottom fell out of my world. I'm going in for my 2nd half of medical management in the morning and I wondered what to expect? Will I be in as much pain as labour? I'm terrified. And I'm terrified of what comes next. We both want to try again, is it safe soon after the pessaries? And I know I'll be so anxious, when and if we catch again. Plus my friends due any day now and someone at work had the same edd as me, how will I cope with that? I feel so lost. Thanks for reading, sorry it's so long!
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