Hello Everyone,
I have just joined today and thought I would share my story.......
We found out I was pregnant with our 7th child in November 2010 - we were thrilled. Had a few slightly not nice comments but its my body and we dearly love our children. Things were going well or so I thought. Had my 12 week scan booked and was so excited. When they scanned baby was too curled up for any measurments etc but other than that all was well and he looked perfect. They gave me another scan for 2 weeks after. Once in the scan room yet again baby was too curled for measurements again but he was kicking and very active, at one point he even looked like he was waving at us lol. The songographer mentioned that the fluid around baby wasnt good and there shouldve been more, she said once of the causes could be abnormality, she booked me a further appointment the following wednesday at fetal medicine. We werent too worried about any abnormality's as we had already discussed this and said what will be will be - it was still our baby no matter what.
The following wednesday (I was 15 weeks 4 days) we had another scan, again fluid was very reduced but this time they mentioned something with the brain, maybe water on the brain. Consultant booked me in for the next day to go to Kings College Hospital in London for a more indepth scan. On the journey up baby was kicking me and moving about. We had lunch and I remember thinking how odd that baby hadnt moved after I'd eaten. Anyway, after a 4 hour wait at KCH i was finally seen. The doc doing the scan was very quiet and quickly mentioned he was doing a scan on the head. I JUST KNEW! He stopped scanning me and turned and looked and said how very sorry he was but there is no heartbeat - I cannot express enough how right then and there my world ended. He went and got another doc who confirmed no fetal heart. Dont really remember much after except a lot of tears from me and hubby - how on earth we drove back from London I will never know. I know it was silent in the car.
The next day I had to go back to fetal medicine at my local hospital to discuss with the consultant the next steps. I remember sitting listening but I dont think it was going in. It was a day of tears and one last scan of our much wanted baby. I was given a pill and booked into Labour ward on the Sunday at 8am.
The next couple of days went in a blur, I wasnt ready to let my baby go, how i managed to go to hospital on the sunday morning i will never know. I cannot fault the staff and the care I received at all they were wonderful.
At 9.30 am I was given a pill (not orally) and thereafter every 3 hours until I give birth. Labour started at 12.30pm that day. The day went by in a major lot of pain, at 9.30 that night i was given the last pill before they have to let me rest for 12 hours and then they will start again. The following morning (31st Jan 2011) I was woken up by a lady next door giving birth, once awake my labour seemed to really kick in. At 07.40 I said to hubby I needed a wee, he took me to loo and then put me back to bed. At 07.50 I said i needed another wee, yet again he took me to the loo, at 07.55 after forcing out what i thought was a wee was in fact our baby, he was born complete in the sac. I went into total panic mode, screaming and crying.
About an hour later the midwife brought in our baby, he was perfect just perfect. We had a vicar bless him and then spent the next 4 hours with him.
I gave permission for baby to go to a London Hospital for a post mortem as I need to know what went wrong.
As I sit and write this Im waiting on a phone call from the hospital with answers and to be told our baby is back. Once I have this then I can arrange a funeral.
Well thats my story, I apologise for it being long but it has helped writing it down.
Thank you for listening xxxxxx
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PrincessAllison · 10/02/2011 12:30
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