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[sad] my baby was due this week.

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TheYuleLogLady · 22/12/2010 08:32

and would have been 9. It still hurts.

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StayFrosty · 22/12/2010 08:38

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MrsB33 · 22/12/2010 09:46

im so sorry, im quite new to all this with loosing my first baby in sept this yr at 13 weeks, i know it gets easier with time, but 9 years on and for her still to be in your thoughts, does it really ever get easier?

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SilveryMoon · 22/12/2010 09:51

I've had a total of 3 m/c. The first was due NYE and would now be coming up 6.
The 2nd was due on 28th dec and would be coming up 4 and the third was due end of Jan and would be coming up 2.
I have a ds of 3 yo and a ds who will be 2 in feb, but I do still think of the ones I lost.
What they'd have looked like, etc etc.
I do still get a bit upset sometimes because part of me still feels like my body let me down, but I do have 2 little monsters delightful boys, and if my failed pregnancy's had gone full term, I wouldn't have these iyswim, so in a weird kind of way, part of me is glad.
Does that make any sense at all?

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TheYuleLogLady · 22/12/2010 13:27

makes a lot of sense. If number 1 had happened numbers 2 and 3 wouldn't be hre and if number 4 had happened life would be very different.

MrsB - it does get easier. it's just sometimes aniversaries jump up and bite you.