Has anybody got any advice on what to do?
I had a miscarriage in May. I haven't discussed it with my partner in weeks. He's just happy that I'm physically and mentally stronger now.
However as the end of December, my due date, approaches I feel the grief coming back. I have cried my self to sleep on a number of night recently. When I think about it I connect with the grief like it only happened yesterday. Christmas seems like it will have a black cloud, I should be giving birth then. I was with my sisters recently and reminded them christmas is also my due date. They just fell silent. It seems nobody wants to talk about something so sad. I don't want to overshadow a family celebration but all I can imagine is that for me christmas will be sad not to be welcoming a new member to the family.
What ever the due date may be have been how do you get through that time?
Do you think about it or keep busy and distracted?
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approaching due date. Advice
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Tuzz · 27/11/2010 14:03
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