Discovered our 2nd MMC on Wednesday, both the foetus was abt 8 weeks. First time there was just debris left, this time foetus but no heartbeat.
I'm going in for (2nd) ERPC on Monday.
Having told our families, all my mother can say is about going to see a Gynecologist to find out why, and she'll pay for us to go private blah blah blah. She never lost one and does not understand.
How can I help her to understand? It does not help me grieve, It feels like she thinks that throwing money around will make things right, or that I'm a machine which needs fixing.
Several other people are saying (in effect) that perhaps the Sonographers got it wrong, just couldn't find the heartbeat - anyone else get that?
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2nd MMC and parental "advice"
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YBR · 08/10/2010 07:33
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