Please don’t flame me. Have been having problem periods for years very heavy feeling drained very down before I come on and have had little help from the gp. 4 years ago tried the mini pill was having some problems with dh he said it made me loopy although I felt fine and friends I confided in said he was wrong. Then got prescribed sertraline possible pmdd to go with it had no libido but felt ok as no periods but due to dh comments came off it
Have been back since describing my symptoms numerous time I am now 42 and told I am peri was offered a blood test for this and to check my thyroid but never got round to going symptoms are night sweats not hot just wake up wet and cold because of it brain fog really bad anxiety a few days before then depression sore boobs from mid cycle hair loss and not complaining but the sex surge to name a few
The main problem is my mood swings with dh I admit I can be vile without turning this into a relationship thread I keep bringing up the past we can be absolutely fine very happy then bang I kick off about the past horrendous anxiety paranoia followed by depression then my period starts and we are fine again I feel deeply ashamed but at the time it feels completely rational
Please don’t flame me I know I need to go back to the gp but after being fobbed off so many times I want to be armed with suggestions of things to try other than it’s female life. Feeling utterly worn out miserable from insomnia and got bloating and belly ache slight spotting and have work tomorrow and I just want to stay in bed depression mode has kicked in
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Pmdd peri menopause or both
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Alfiemoon1 · 08/11/2019 21:51
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