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Highly varied mood swings... normal?

(9 Posts)
hesterton Fri 24-Nov-17 18:21:18

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LaGattaNera Fri 24-Nov-17 18:51:01

I have this yes - can go from happy and positive to feeling totally overwhelmed, anxious & unable to cope. Decided to try HRT and have got it but as I'm on a training course at the moment, am waiting until that is over before I start just incase I have any side effects at the commencement.
Thing is I never had PMS but do experience real moods with meno - well actually not moods, they are more that moods and recently had some very black weeks. I sympathise OP

Jasminedes Fri 24-Nov-17 20:40:22

Yes, me too.

hesterton Fri 24-Nov-17 20:44:27

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Jasminedes Sat 25-Nov-17 17:56:05

That sounds good. I didn't realise it would be such a rollercoaster 🎢 .

trainedopossum Sat 25-Nov-17 18:09:06

Bless you, I have come here to write essentially the same thing, or a variation that goes something like 'Can your hormones make you hate yourself?' It certainly doesn't feel like my usual self-regard, which is pretty even and healthy.

I'm still stinging from a recent minor personal incident (think bad haircut) and I'm despairing, far beyond what I'd consider a measured reaction. It has taken me days to address it because I knew my reaction was not proportional and I didn't want to wig out in front of the other individuals involved. Also feeling utterly paranoid about how people view me (ie is everyone treating me with contempt/disregard because I'm officially old now) which is also not normal for me.

I may be slightly more vulnerable now in that I just got my period on Thurs, but usually the second day any blues lift dramatically.

Christ, it is not unlike being a teenager again.

PhyllisDietrichson Wed 29-Nov-17 16:44:05

Yes definitely - I do sympathise hesterton.

The worst mood I get (which I posted about) is feeling that I've just had an injection of hideous depression. It spreads quickly throughout my body in the same way a hot-flush does. I can be feeling fine then I'll become hot and feel this horrid release into my veins of a sour, angry depression. Thankfully it doesn't last. I've had enougth though, off to get HRT tomorrow after 18 months of changing horrible emotions, chronic insomnia and flushes. Hoobloominray!

FritzDonovan Thu 30-Nov-17 22:41:03

I just came on here to post similar!
Are these swings of mood cyclical (ie follow the period timing) or are they triggered by particular incidents which you overreact to? I haven't worked that out yet. Seems a bit of both, so crap all round!

LaGattaNera Fri 01-Dec-17 19:56:32

Mine tend not to be cyclical but reactions (massive overreactions) to stressful incidents, or indeed incidents that are only mildly stressful but which I seem to find overwhelming.

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