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Hi i,m new here with 4 kids

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4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 20:26:30

Hi i,m Marayka i,m 29 got 4 kids have had 5 but first born passed away .I,ve got a boy Jae he's 10 a girl Paris shes 7 & identical twin girls Ebony & Baylee 3 yrs .I,m married 2 a jamaican guy {well his parents are}& very happy though its hard having 4 kids i,m a Afro hairdresser but have 2 do it frm home as i look after the kids & luv every minute of it.

SeaShells Thu 06-Jan-05 20:28:45

Hi 4kids, you've picked beautiful names for your children! Welcome to MN!

Aero Thu 06-Jan-05 20:29:38

Welcome to the mad world of mn 4kids! And I take my hat off to you for looking after your 4-strong troop! I'm stopping at 3!
V sorry to hear you lost your first born.

MunchedTooManyMarsLady Thu 06-Jan-05 20:29:57

Hi again 4kids

lockets Thu 06-Jan-05 20:30:02

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zebra Thu 06-Jan-05 20:46:33

How do you say your name?
Ma-Ray-Ka
or Ma-Rye-Ka
or?....
Ebony is a great name. (so are the others, really!)

4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 20:46:52

Thank u all 4 welcoming me i,m frm Hounslow in Middlesex . My first born died 11 yrs ago her name is Chardonnay but its o.k i cope.

Gwenick Thu 06-Jan-05 20:49:43

Hi 4Kids - do you use any other forums? I'm sure I've seen you around somewhere before - but could just be someone similar.

4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 20:50:18

You pronounce it ma-ray-ka but its actually spelt Marijka but if i put that you wouldnt be able 2 pronounce it so its easier 2 spell it as its pronounced.

4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 20:53:08

2 Gwenick i go on the kylie forum {I love kylie }but i use a diffo name.

Gwenick Thu 06-Jan-05 20:53:58

No - must be someone else, just write just the same as her that's all.

Welcome to the forum

Surfermum Thu 06-Jan-05 20:57:26

Hi 4kids and welcome to mumsnet. I come from Hounslow, well Heston but near enough, but I live near Poole now. I used to frequent the Chariot and the Bell a lot at one stage!

4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 21:04:39

2 surfermum how old r u might know u.

Surfermum Thu 06-Jan-05 21:05:29

Ooh do I really have to own up? OK, it's on another thread. I'm 42, fast heading for 43.

4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 21:09:10

Wouldnt know u did u grow up in heston i,m orig frm Isleworth

secur Thu 06-Jan-05 21:13:17

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4kids Thu 06-Jan-05 21:19:39

2 secur Chardonnay was 10 days old when she died she was extremally prem 27 weeks. 11 yrs ago survival rates wernt good 4 such prem kids but now its better. my twins were born 3 m prem and r fine.

ZoeBristol Thu 06-Jan-05 21:24:56

hello Iam also a new girl Mumsnet seems to give us a life line to the outside world. sorry to hear about first born .
I am 30 flippin odd !! as my sis says closer to 40 than 30.....1 ds (2.5) and a dd 5 months had a hard time becoming a sahm but sorting life out now ( took me long enough I know) lived all over GB so trying to make roots in Bristol but its hard to make friends as people do think your a nutter not knowing people ( whats that all about ??) Anyway I am looking for an interest that can involve the whole family any ideas ??

Surfermum Thu 06-Jan-05 22:31:24

Hi 4kids - back from Celeb BB! I did grow up in Heston and went to the Green School. What about you?

secur Thu 06-Jan-05 22:45:07

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joash Thu 06-Jan-05 22:47:02

Hi 4kids. Welcome to MN, enjoy the ride...I have 4 but purely by default (three of my own & 1 on a residency order.
Love em all thougu.

4kids Fri 07-Jan-05 11:42:06

reply 4 secur my twins had a good survival rate cos they were big 4 3m prem .hospital said should of weighed about 1.5lb each but both weighed in at 3lb each .said if gone whole pregnancy would of weighed in at approx 7-7/12lb each only spent 4 weeks in s.c.b.u .Looking after my brood is v hard work but worth it only problem i get is my 10yr old ds feels abit left out being the only boy have had 2 deal with bad behavier at school & home

secur Fri 07-Jan-05 15:00:19

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4kids Fri 07-Jan-05 15:51:53

2 secur i do believe the behavior is due 2 large family . I try hard 2 spend qaulity time with each child but as twins r very much still dependent on me its hard 2 find the time. the older kids feel left out as the twins take up alot of time .the older kids are never left out but 2 them they feel they r. I spose a lot of older kids feel this way .

secur Sat 08-Jan-05 23:02:30

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