ds (3yrs3mths) access arrangements are one day per weekend, at his dads parents house. Which day this is is decided by his dad to suit him. He has just told me he took ds to a funeral last sunday.
It wasn't a close friend or family member.
I wasn't consulted, he didn't even bother to tell me, it just came up during a conversation about the next visit.
I am really that he took him, especially as I didnt even have the opportunity to discuss this event with ds.
Am I over-reacting? I don't need to be consulted on every move but surely this is a major event in a childs life?
When easy divorce was first mooted, one of the arguments was that it would mean couples wouldn't have an incentive to murder each other. It seems to me that the conditions of divorce (ie the absent parent allowed to stand outside the family pissing in) make murder just as attractive as the conditions of marriage once did!