I have been a single mum since my daughter was born, and DDs father has never had any contact with her other than an hour visit when she was 5 months old. DD has just recently turned 1 and I am still struggling with trying to understand how any parent can ignore that they have a child, and especially when they have another child they do have a relationship with.
I have no feelings for the father (other than contempt and disgust most of the time), and our contact since pregnancy has been few and far between and on occasion not very pleasant, but he is the father of my DD and I can't change it. Common sense (and friends) tell me that we (she) is better off without him on the scene, but there is just a niggling something that struggles to accept he does not want to know her.
I know there are many many many people in the same situation, some maybe with feelings of relief that the father is absent and not involved, and others perhaps like myself wondering how someone could just simply ignore such a precious life.
I know this is something that I have to come to terms with and hope in time the feelings get less and less, but some days i just feel like I can't make sense of it all...
I'd just like to hear how others have managed to come to terms with such a situation and that it does get easier to accept and live with in time.
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How do you come to terms with a father not wanting anything to do with your child?
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RedHairedGirlie · 23/04/2010 23:11
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