just had enough of ex [again]. there hasnt been any problems for ages between us. then the last time he had the dc he gave my 9 year old a war game age rating 16 on some websites and 12 on others.
Anyway, years ago my solicitor wrote to him asking him not to play unsuitable pc games with dc. anyway, i let my ds play it and the next day he told my dd she was a 'son of a bitch' and it transpires they say that on the game. so i took it away and said he can have it back when he's older.
so i drop off kids this morning with him and tell him not to put ds in that position again...one where ds is stuck between two different parents descisions and 'messing' up his head. so my ex of course turns round and accuses me of doing that not him.
by the way, the dc never want to sleep over at his, my ds was in tears this morning [as usual] becasue he didnt want to go at all and i have put so much energy into making them go yet my ex dosnt see that I am making them go he just blames me, blames me for them not wanting to go etc-everything. So so so so fed up. will it ever ever ever stop or do i just give in and let my children play swaering death, killing games etc and just let them do what ever they like as long as their dad ok's it? do i not have any say or am i constantly having to be made to feel rubbish for actually bringing up the kids by myself and fairly well?
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newyorkshire · 27/03/2010 11:08
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