so so soooooooooo angry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[benbon]

just got my kids back after them being with their dad to learn he has introduced them to his new girlfriend.....

we only split in july last year this is the second (although very likely there were more) girlfriend since we split. he hasnt had them for 3 weeks as he went on holiday with this new girlfriend... im just so angry that after 3 weeks of not seeing them he cant pry himself away from her for 2 days so he can see his kids!!!

im so angry im not even making sense.. oh yes then he called me SIMPLE!!

[dawnangel]

i hated my ex introuducing her to various gfs..especaly cause we wernt together..so he had no parental rights etc..and its not fair on the child cause of the constant insecurities..id have been livid in your shoes.
my daughters doesnt see her often now,his choice not mine. his partner is to blame i think.

[newyorkshire]

bb, I can understand your point. It's quite inconsiderate of him.

However, it's one of those things that is beyond your control and he will loose out for it.

Your kids will only respect you more for being stable and knowing where they stand with you. Just be there for them and thank god you are not with him anymore!

Hang in there, one day you will be able to just laugh it off and so will your children!

Hope things get better for you.

[elastamum]

I know how you feel and i used to get really angry when my ex paraded his married gf in front of our kids. But now 2 year on when he is about to rte marry I am past caring what he does. I have a wonderful relationship with my sons. We have so much fun together and have become much closer since he left. In fact life is better all round