Hi, this is my first post and I'm just looking for some advice, I am four months pregnant and split with my ex the day I found out I was pregnant. We were together for 9 months and during that time he wouldn't respect my wishes, decisions and was extremely stubborn on a regular basis, I became more and more unhappy with him constantly saying I was upset because it my choice and I needed professional help and I didn't find him supportive at all - I was signed off work through depression just before falling pregnant. My ex has a diagnosis of bipolar type two (and also has had issues with smoking weed) but has been constantly trying to make out that I am disturbed, unstable and volatile. We recently had an argument and he called the police saying I was unstable - I am very worried about this as it shows he is willing to get authorities involved (the police left with no concerns). He recently sent an email saying I was a b*tch to live with and a spoilt child - I am struggling financially and he is not working and turned down work in the past few weeks. I don't believe he is a positive influence to me or my unborn child and I do not trust him at all.... Have asked him to leave me alone - not sure what to do next, has been making the pregnancy quite stressful.
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DeenaCortina · 22/02/2010 16:33
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