I dont think it can just be me, surely?? But so many people seem to look at me/my life like i 'chose' it to be this way. While waiting in line at the post office recently two 'older' ladies were stood behind me, and they cant have known me or my marital status, but just happened to be having a very brutal conversation about 'single mums' and how they think 'these women' just cant be bothered to get to work and have a proper life! "They think they should just have a baby or 3 and the government will give them a house and some money and thats it, very lazy, its not right!" Im trying very hard not to let it annoy me so much, because everyone is entitled to their opinion, but thoughts like that really are so unfair!
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