The father of my children has dissapeared again. Stopped my money and not contacted us for a month. From past experience we won't hear from him for another two, he will then say he couldn't see his children as i am a bitch but he has punished me enough and now will give me a break.
Also he says he stops my money as it is the only way he can effect me and make me suffer. C.S.A. have had his details for 18 months and have done nothing.
Anyway in the past i have let him then have his children and he builds up his relationship again.
This is the first time i have not contacted him begging for money or encouraged him to be a good father. I have had enough and will not try and change him anymore. What i want to know is has anyone decided enough is enough with random contact and stopped the relationship. Or are some of you letting this pattern carry on for years on end. I'm interested in what we should and will put up with and how long you let them act like selfish tossers. I have posted along these lines before about a bad dad being better than no dad and vice versa. Just shows what i difficult decision it is and i can never really work out what is the best and healthiest option for my boys.
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fairyfly · 26/06/2005 17:51
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