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I like a guy, now what?

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thesunshinesbrightly Tue 03-Nov-09 22:49:41

I am single, out of a controlling relationship, i swore i would never like a man again, but i do, but i dont know if he likes me, i dont know if i want a relationship, but i do like him, do i tell him or leave it be, sorry this is gibberish, any advice welcome, thankyou.

jamestkirk Tue 03-Nov-09 23:14:20

ask him out - if he says yes then get to know each other and see where it goes - who knows - you might both be totally

thesunshinesbrightly Tue 03-Nov-09 23:32:27

thankyou for replying, i thought i was alone grin I dunno, do i really what too get into all that, what if he doesnt like me? i'm not used to rejection, that does sound awful doesnt it hmm

jamestkirk Tue 03-Nov-09 23:44:30

dont worry - he might like the sound of your gibberish

do a dummy run on me - see what you think

thesunshinesbrightly Tue 03-Nov-09 23:48:18

grin i'm not really this gibberish.

smile cant do it,aint i awful.

jamestkirk Tue 03-Nov-09 23:49:41

youre terrible!!

i feel so let down - theres tears and everything

thesunshinesbrightly Tue 03-Nov-09 23:50:07

hmm maybe, i will have some dutch courage the weekend, and who knows, oh god then i will be a gibberish drunk!!!!

thesunshinesbrightly Tue 03-Nov-09 23:51:17

non MN <<<hug>>> there, there, you should teach better then shouldnt ya grin

jamestkirk Tue 03-Nov-09 23:56:45

teach better? - always used to get 'must try harder' - some things never change

tho the hug has helped me get over it

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:04:14

teach better? - always used to get 'must try harder' - some things never change

see, i cant even string a sentence together, what hope do i have, also, hope you were joking, because now i feel guilty.

<<kisses feet>>

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:07:07

See i'm terrible, i am just going too crawl back in my hole, why i am like this? very strangehmm
it's not like i havent had my fair share of men( that isnt like how i have written)

<<crawls back in hole>>

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:13:52

you really should ask this guy out - or me - cos youve got me totally

and now i'm struggling to put a snetence together - must be all the feet kissing

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:17:58

what if he pulls that face y'know the grin or shock

omg what if your him?? shock

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:20:03

or what if he doesn't pull those faces and just tells me i am a raving loony!!!!!

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:23:46

i know - next time you think youll see him, take your mn carrier bag. just flash it at him and bat your eyelids - if he goes shock - then youll know its me

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:26:13

erm....you are a raving loony - sure he wont mind - can be quite an endearing feature

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:28:56

smile thankyou for your help.

ok question, what would you say if a gibberish wreck came too you and said 'how's about it love'

or even better, what shall i say? i dont normally do the asking, why hasnt he asked me? surely that must be a sign he doesnt like me??

i dont like me either i'm a nutter, i have just confirmed it, and now you will avoid threads with my name in fear i will talk too you.

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:31:44

oh my god! i must stay clear of caffine late at night, does nothing for me hmm

<<skips off happily to bed>>

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:37:25

maybe he's admiring you from afar and wouldnt think youd ever be interested so doesnt want to make a fool of himself - remember there was tears and everything earlier when i was let down with a thud

as for the 'hows about it love' - sighhh

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:38:58

wondered what you were running on - happy skipping and sweet dreams

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:43:17

hmm maybe, oh well worth a shot, he can only say no, right?

you no likey the 'how's about it love' damn it, thought i had you with that one grin

to much coke( the drink) i have a weakness for it when i'm confused grin

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:50:35

you did have me with it - the sighhh was me swooning

try it on your fella - it cant fail

thesunshinesbrightly Wed 04-Nov-09 00:56:22

Thankyou, you are a nice bloke (dont get many of them hmm)

bid you goodnight, and i admire you for talking to a raving loony wink

jamestkirk Wed 04-Nov-09 00:59:56

oh shucks blush

nite to you too - from your fellow loon

jamestkirk Thu 05-Nov-09 22:57:31

you found any dutch courage yet?

am just so on the edge of my seat waiting to hear if he turned and ran

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