DH and I have split. He has moved out temporarily in with a friend with the hope that when I have had baby and am recovered that I will move out somewhere more suitable and he will move back in. We are married, this flat is mortgaged up to the nines so one of us HAS to live here. He is self-employed and making next to nothing.
I have a 19 month old DS and am due in 3 weeks' time.
Just spent the morning at the CAB where they spent 45 minutes explaining to me that I do not have to move. I know this. Problem is that we have no money to speak of and if we continue to live together we will kill each other. (not literally, but..you know)
Have been told that as we are married I will not qualify for income support or housing. I am stuck here. We cant afford to pay a full rent for one of us to move out. I am quite sure that I will ebd up with PND if I have to live with him when baby is born. This is horrid.
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turtle23 · 02/11/2009 11:18
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