DD is 15 months so I can't get out much plus have no money to socialise. I havn't had sex for two years and I'm starting to get desperate for sex. I am getting down about it. Even if I do meet a nice man or just a man with a pulse how do we have spontaneous dirty sex with a one year old around? I'm mourning my freedomn again. I do have a rampant rabbit and it's good but nothing beats a real man you know? How do you lot cope with sexual frustration. I don't understand how I will ever have a sex life again.
There are benefits to 1 year olds - they stay in their cots! Do you want a new relationship, or do you just want no strings sex? Can you handle emotionless sex? - not everyone can. Does your dd ever see her father or stay with her GPs? I had a couple of brief flings when I was newly single. Now I am a bit less bothered about the sex but more interested in finding someone nice to spend time with... if you have no help at all then can you find a babysitter and then find whatever are appropriate dates/nights out for you?