That's the question... we are in the middle of divorce precedings and DS is coming back home from his father's with some comments that are a bit worrying.
He has been told I'm a looser, and that I'm blocking him to see his father. He has been promised any toy he can think of and bought as much as he fancies.
I can't compete on the toy buying stuff so I have continued to spend as much quality time with DS as I can possibly can, and organise things for him to have a good time without getting into expenses I can simply not afford.
Regarding the name calling, I have talked to DS and tried to be as neutral as possible without putting any blame on his dad or talking bad about him.
ExH can barely be with DS on the days he is supposed to be with him and DS often is left under the care of other people while he is out partying or dealing with job commitments.
So, despite this, Ex has told DS that we are changing the residence pattern so he can spend more time with him, without telling me about it, and now it seems in DS's eyes that the reason why he doesn't see his father as often as he would like is that I'm blocking such contact when in reality it is him who is cancelling or changing dates.
How do you deal with this? Any advice highly welcome
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When you child starts believing you are a bad parent due to what your ex tells him, what do/can you do?
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OrangeFish · 11/09/2009 09:50
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