Hi everyone, I am a single parent with a 6.5 month little boy. My ex and I split up when I was 5 months pregnant after being together for 5 years. My ex wants to be involved with the baby and has been seeing him 3x a week but I am starting to feel uncomfortable with his requests for access. Currently he sees the baby 5.30-7pm 2 evenings a week (at my house) and on a Sunday 1-4.30pm- initally at my house but for the past 2 weeks he's been taking the baby to his house/out somewhere. Last week he started asking to have the LO overnight- I refused as my ex had only had the baby once on his own for a few hours. Also I am BF baby bedtime and morning plus I just feel he is too young to be away overnight. He then asked to have him alternate saturdays and Sundays (I would have rather kept to the Sundays but agreed in the hope it'd stop him pushing for overnight stays). This evening he has said he wants to take him 10-4pm on his weekend days. I got really upset and we ended up rowing. I have started back at work full time this week and I feel like all my quality time with LO is being taken away. I feel like I have all the responsibility and hard work to bring up LO and don't feel it's fair for my ex to take the baby for virtually 50% of the free time available.
How much time do you think is reasonable for baby to spend with his Father? Am I being unreasonable?
I feel really upset and worried. I know it's melodramatic but I feel like baby is being taken away from me iykwim. Silly I know...
Sorry for rambling
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Curtail · 27/08/2009 21:15
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