I left exp just over a year ago . The relationship was what I have since realised emotionally abusive. Anyway ex has constantly been pecking away at me for the last year through solicitors, the dc, basically any way in which he can to control me still and prevent me from getting on with my life.
I have looked after our 3 dc, twin boys now 2 and 5 year old ds single handedly with him providing little emotional and financial support.
Anyway just as i'm starting to feel better and feel like my life is turning a corner ex is suddenly declaring his love for me and is around all the time . The kids are obviously over the moon but I feel like how dare he just turn up and start playing devoted father and husband after all that has happened.
What should I do now? obviously he is using the kids as a bargaining tool to get back with me . History tells me that we don't work .It took a lot of courage to get out of the relatonship and now I feel back to square 1. If I say I'm not interested he will go back to his nasty ways and the dc will miss out on being with their father.I can't go through everthing again i'm too exhausted.
Am I stuck with this situation for ever?
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bodgejob · 21/08/2009 15:06
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