I have a 2 .8 year old dd who sees her father intermittently - sometimes often, but today she has gone after not seeing him for 7 weeks. He has been on holiday abroad with his GF whilst his GF's DS was on holiday with his dad.
So the last 7 weeks - full time work which finished 2 weeks age, I have 2 weeks til I start my new job, saved carefully to be able to cope with this gap, minimal help or support and no breaks from my (lovely) DD in the mean time. We are doing ok, I think, she seems bright and happy and I hope she will have fun with her dad, and be carefree, and contented and well looked after.
But I am SOOO tired and I need a break... She's been gone an hour and I miss her already. It's so confusing. I wish I could have a regular evening off or something, but I can't, obviously I have to do the best for my girl and the best for my girl's relationship with her dad... but I seem to have lost myself. Is that normal and ok? I am so confused.
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Is it normal to feel guilty about desperately wanting a break???
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notevenamousie · 17/08/2009 12:54
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