Ok, some background...As some of you will know I'm still in the middle of a court case sorting out residence for my DS, who is 4.
Anyway I strongly suspected it after some peculiar comments from DS and now I have evidence, of a sort (ie DS has said something to someone who isn't me!) I don'tw ant to give 'examples' but believe me when I say they are not anything you can imagine a 4 year old coming out with 'off their own bat'.
As well as this he is now telling his own solicitor blatant lies and just just generally being a bullying arsehole. I could give so many examples.
Now, I can handle his nastiness but I'm really upset he is doing this to DS who loves his Dad and will accept what he says.
So how on earth to I handle this? There is absolutely no point approaching him directly about this as he will just deny it and say I'm making things up (and may also take it out on DS).
Currently he was weekend contact - Fri eve to Sun afternoon. I'm wondering whether I should reduce this? He's also wanting to go to mediation which I think he imagines will be an opportunity to just bully and push until he gets his own way again.
I'm willing to go - as how will it look as I refuse - but am very wary of him. he is not the sort of person to imagine he is ever in the wrong and can be very, very manipulative.
Some advice would be very helpful please. My main aim in all this is to protect DS. I don't want to stop him seeing his Dad but this is causing a lot of concern.
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Janos · 29/07/2009 13:46
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