I have been on dating websites for a while and had two dates with one man, three weeks between them due to me finding it hard to get out to meet him. Actually he then offered to come to mine and I panicked a bit and it never happened.
Anyway I now have got the same problem. I met a man last week who surprised me by being really nice, and attractive and fun The problem is he lives about two hours away (or an hour and a half by train) an just doesn't seem to understand that I can't just pop over to his town for the evening. I have never been that distance away from DD and she has medical needs so I would worry that she would need me and I'd take ages getting back. IF it worked out long term I can see it could be ok but at the moment I just can't get out often enough to date, regardless of whether it was a long distance thing and I am thinking now there is no point in meeting up with this man again even though we got on well.
I'm not sure what my questions are actually, just how do people manage the dating bit because presumably if I could get to know someone well enough then it would be easier if it was a long term thing as I wouldn't mind them coming to mine. At the moment it seems impossible though.
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used2bthin · 14/07/2009 22:12
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