my partner and i, recently split, are trying to work out what is the best way to share care of our nearly 3yo DS. we have agreed he has him 3 nights and i have him 4. At the moment this works out so that pretty much he swops parent every other day, so he rarely spends two nights in a row at the same house. I am starting to think it would be better for him if we were to split the week so that he spent, say, mon/tue at his dad's plus one day/night at the weekend - perhaps it would feel a little more 'normal'. i think that as parents when we only have him for a night at a time we are prone to to being less disciplined (because when you only have a few hours with your child you want it all to be lovely) and it could be unsettling for him if boundaries are getting more elastic and he's being swopped between parents every day.
Is there a kind of 'professional' opinion on this? most people seem to do it on an 'every other weekend' basis, and i wondered if that's because it's better for the child that way?
advice appreciated!
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PintandChips · 25/06/2009 17:45
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