wwyd? rant alert

[mamas12]

Well it's another fathers day thing
Briefly, I offered him to have dcs this wkend as it's fathers day he said 'I have no strong opinion either way' I'm playing cricket they can come and watch if they like
Dcs buying present and card but want to come with me to country fair instead of cricket
He is now saying he wants them in the morning but for how long I don't know.
I hate the changing of plans last minute mind fuck thing AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAargh

[ridingjoker]

swollow, count to 10. drop dc off with him. go bugger off and have nice day in peace to yourself.

and seen as how he doesn't know how long for, just you spend as long as you want doing your own thing. if your not avaiable when he's ready to drop them off..... tough shit, he should have specified a time. he cant expect you to sit at home by phone till he drops them off.

[mamas12]

you are so right but I get the fallout ie we wanted to go country fair but dad wouldn't take us blah

[ridingjoker]

tell them its fathers day....... they do what father wants that day as it's his day. same as on birthdays you do what birthday person wants

and you sit in a nice spa getting a massage

[mamas12]

yeah love to ba able to afford that!
Yep suck it up and then I have to
What a whinger I am

[ridingjoker]

whinge on . you'll feel better tomorrow when you can read sunday papers in peace