Hiya,
i have just moved out into my own flat with my son, 10 mins walk from his dad. we are very keen to share parenting... i would personally like to have DS (2.5yo) at home most of the time, and go to his dad's perhaps 2 nights a week, but understandably his dad wants to have him more than that and i feel that i don't have the right to say no.
anyway, we have come up with a plan that basically means every other night, so Mon with me, tuesday at dad's, Wed with me etc., etc.
The thing is i am concerned that this is a very disruptive way of life for a child and tthat he would feel more settled spending more time in one place. But I'm not sure, anyone have any real knowledge or experience of this?
i want to do what's right for our DS and he's very close to his dad. but also i desperately want him to be with me most of the time and i think that i might be looking for 'reasons' to make that happen, so i need some impartial advice!
thanks,
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question about sharing care with ds's dad - every other night?
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PintandChips · 21/05/2009 14:15
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