This is such a long story,..so i'l try cut it short as poss. I split with xp 2 and half years ago but hes never been in DD's life, never bonded or done a thing for her.
After we split he suddenly wanted to see dd so we met up once/twice a week (with me there) i soon cut back on visits after he seemed to just want to find out about my life rather then thinking about or having any interest in DD. Not only this but he used to cause arguemtents, swear and ask dd sexual questions about mummys life. He has let her down many times, turns up late everytime and time after time given false promises, including upsetting DD on her 3rd birthday letting her pick toys and getting to thw queue to pay to then say hes changed his mind...
Anyway,...thats just a few examples,..i wont let him have DD whos now 4 years old alone as i dont trust him, hes uncapable in my eyes. He comes across like dd's a toy to show around rather then thinking about how she;l feel...i am more then willing to meet up if he wants to see her, for example at the park or tigers where they can play with me there taking a step back.
XP is now married and has a baby who he desperatly wants DD to meet,...i just wonderd other peoples views on whether dd should meet them or not???
DD doesnt know about his child. I am worried that dd will be hurt that her dad is living with this 2nd child but never really botheres with her. Hes said himself he does eveything in the world for his 2nd child to make up for not doing a thing for our DD,...
Any views would be great, ty x
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Should DD meet XP's wife and children?
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MeNmyGirl · 05/03/2009 12:26
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