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marie1979 · 03/03/2009 22:31

hi ive just spilt up with my partner and im bored and lonely i have 3 kids and when they have gone to bed after housework im bored used to go to bed at 9 cause my son has ezcema and he wakes up all through the night but now my partner has gone i cant go to sleep anyone had the same problem when their ex left?

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stainesmassif · 04/03/2009 17:12

hi marie, sorry to hear you're having a rubbish time, i'm not in the same boat, but didn't want your post to go unanswered. have you got local mums to go out with in the evenings?

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 17:56

no prefer to stay in with the kids was just havin a moan feeling sorry for myslef thankyou for answering

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stainesmassif · 04/03/2009 18:04

well i always think it's best to feel sorry for yourself - noone else is going to. i stay in a lot whilst my partner goes out - i really can't be bothered at the moment with young baby....i do a lot of online jigsaws! sad, i know!!!!

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 21:17

ha ha uve just cheered me uphow olds ur baby?

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dustbuster · 04/03/2009 21:20

Hi marie, I love watching DVD boxsets - you can pick them up cheaply on Amazon. There is some great stuff out there, and you get quite addicted and look forward to the evening so you can watch the next episodes. (How sad I am!)

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stainesmassif · 04/03/2009 21:21

ah, good!! he's 12 weeks old - slept from 12 til 7 for the first time the day before yesterday....i am so proud!!!

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 21:22

ive got 3 so dont have much time for myslef and i wouldnt want it any other way my youngest has ezcema so i try to go to bed at 9after all the housework cause i know he will be up for most of the night and i will have to change his suits and put cream on him and give his medicine so havent got any time to go out anyway if i went out as soon as i got back i know he would be up and a shattered mum would be no help to him

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stainesmassif · 04/03/2009 21:24

ah bless both of you...as soon as i had this one i thought oh my god how would i cope on my own. how do you cope with three? i would love to have two more, but time is running out - am 37.

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 21:25

ah so sweet i love newborns 12 till 7 thats really good, boxsets yeh good idea but cant really concerntrate on anything at the moment think im just a hopeless cause

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dustbuster · 04/03/2009 21:26

Try something like Sex and the City - nice and light, and the episodes are only 30 minutes long, so you can fit one in before bed!

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 21:27

your as young as you feel, i thought that but its fine the more u have i think the easier it gets

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 21:29

ive watched all the sex and the city and when im watching the earlier ones you know whats coming at the end carrie and big im a kill joy! did u like the film think their doing a 2nd one??

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stainesmassif · 04/03/2009 21:37

how about my name is earl? have you ever watched it? i really like that it has a positive message - earl is trying to make amends for his past behaviour but it's not too preachy. i was a bit disappointed with the satc movie. clothes were still good though

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 21:54

yeh they where nice, yeh seen it ive got a bit of a thing for prisoner cell block h u remember it?? and got scott and charlenes wedding the other day how sad! think i need to get out more

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stainesmassif · 04/03/2009 21:57

hahahahaha! i had forgotten cell block h! where did you get that? in that case you would like knots landing surely. i used to love that.

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marie1979 · 04/03/2009 22:02

ha ha yeh omg nothin made me laugh 4 ages

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