I have to put both ds's into after schl club on Mondays as I work a little later that day. Ds1 is 9 and is fine but ds2 is only 4 and he has only been there twice and is never keen.
I asked ds1 to keep an eye on his brother today and when I turned up to pick them up ds1 was at the other end of the hall with his friends and ds2 was tearful sitting inbetween a group of children from another school waiting for his dinner. My heart sank and he ran into my arms crying. I told ds1 off.... because I felt that if ds2 had been upset sitting next to his brother it wouldn't have got to me so much. I apologised to ds1 afterwards and said I'd sort something else out for ds2. I am usually a "tough old bird" but my heart went out to ds2 I am upset just thinking about it now and I have an over whelming sense of guilt. I have now arranged that ds2 go to my mums and ds1 can stay at the club as alot of his friends are there and he can relax without having to watch his little brother.
Have I reacted over the top? Ds2 has always been clingy and finds it hard to socialise unlike his brother. I just feel that he maybe is too young to be in there as he doesn't even have any friends in his year that go there. Like I said I'm quite a tough no nonsense woman but my guilt really over powered me today.
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My youngest ds broke my heart today...
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moosh · 23/02/2009 21:47
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