Hi i have been reading the lone parent threads for quite a while now but never posted. I hope you dont mind me jumping in with a problem.
I have realised me and my boyfriend have got stuck in a routine that i dont like. We both have a few days off a week, when children are at school and we are not working. We have ended up using this time to have sex. But lately i feel that we have sex, i pull my pants up, he drops me at home, he has freedom, and i carry on with hard work.
It seems it is a really good situation for him but i feel used.
I don't know how to change the pattern though.
I cant get a babysitter for evenings, he knows this and uses time to have freedom. In the days he will see me, but he dissapears when the kids are home. I let this happen as it is early days and i dont want to push them on him. But i feel pulled in all sorts of directions. As if everyone wants a bit of me. A lot of it is my problem as they our my kids, i think i'm jeailous him not having any, or even him not being the father!