Hi i was wondering if anyone can help me, i have a 6 yr old who has never had anything to do with her father except a couple of meetings when she was 4 (his doing not mine) we have lived around the corner from him for the last 4 yrs. We have just moved with my new (as far as hes concerned) partner and out of the blue i was served outside daughters school and the order was for me to attent court in 2 days time as he was taking me to court for contact, i had to write to the judge and personnally deliver it as i was going on holiday the next day, when i came back from holiday i had just walked through customs when a man grabbed me around the arm and served me. I have been to court were my ex asked for no hearings inbetween just a final hearing as he had spent so much getting me there? i had to beg for cafcass as they were just going to make an order for contact there and then for a child that dosnt know him. he is demarding 3 weeks supervised by me or a family memeber if it has to be, then unsupervised for a few hrs for 3 wks then everyother wkend with over night stays, shared holidays and shared christmas. most dads who have bothered with there children should be entitlled to this but surely not a dad whos not bothered for 6 yrs and surly not this quickly, i have just recieved his statement which was 16 pgs long bad nouthing me when my statement was just fact and a few pgs long with nothing really bad about him, his statement is full of lies about me our relationship everything really he is making out he has had more contact than he has, surely he will trip up on this when caffcass talk to my daughter and realise she doesnt knoe him at all, all she remembers is one day out with him where she says she heard him call me bad names adn she now wont even talk about him, so how am i going to get her to see him?
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pinguthepenguin ·
07/03/2009 01:12
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