Hi
I've name changed for this as I have a long running thread going on another subject, and just wanted to share this on it's own merits IYSWIM.
I am a single Mum of 3, having fled domestic abuse and started again. I met someone else, and all seemed to be going well for a while but we split due to his moods and me having to walk on eggshells all the time (been there, done that). There was other stuff but nothing major.
I always felt slightly uncomfortable when he was around my daughter, who's 13...he would walk into her room without knocking etc...but she told me yesterday that one day we were round his house and she had a vest top on with a built in bra, but had a normal bra on too. he asked her why she was wearing a bra with a top that had one built in, and she told him she felt more comfy that way. he then told her to go upstairs and take her bra off and come back down and show him what the top looked like without a bra! Now, to me that screams 'inappropriate'...she's 13, and we've come from a very abusive background...physical as well as sexual and emotional.
Don't get me wrong, we're not together anymore and I've no intentions of getting back with him, but tell me...am I right in thinking and feeling that this should be ringing massive alarm bells? Or has my past coloured my judgement of men?
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This is wrong, right?
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isthiswrong · 21/10/2008 09:58
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