DS1 didn't go to school yesterday as he was unwell. (weak, headaches, dizzy & generally under the weather) Ex H hadn't seen them since Sunday due to his work shift, so agreed to pick them up on his way home from work at 7pm. I told him DS1 wasn't right & that I had just given him some medicine, and he said that he had some medicine at his house & was ok to take him.
Later that evening I was wondering how DS was, so sent a text asking if he was ok, which he didn't reply to, so an hour later I thought I would give him a quick ring just to check DS was alright. He answered the phone & I heard loads of noise, then ex H said he was fine & I could talk to him if I wanted. It was gone 10, so I said "You still have them up?!"
Turns out ex H had taken them straight round his friends where he was drinking whiskey (could hear he was quite drunk), and the boys were left to run wild with his friends children. Because I had checked he was ok, he started shouting "come on boys, shoes on, mummy wants you home", and I could hear his friend laughing.
I was not being precious - I had sent DS1 off poorly & wanted to check how he was, that's all. I didn't expect him to be still up while his dad got drunk!
I can't really do anything here can I? I guess it is up to him how he spends his time with the boys, and I know I am lucky that he sees them as often as he does, but I feel he wasn't very responsible last night & am a little angry.
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I know there isn't really much I can do about this as it's up to ex H what he does when he has the boys, but I'm a bit annoyed
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Pinkchampagne · 27/09/2008 11:44
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