I can't decide what to do.
Currently they see him on a wednesday after school for a couple of hours, and they stay over every friday night until Saturday after lunch.
This was all going well, with the occasional moan from one of them about going, until this week.
Xp thinks I have a bloke (i don't) and spent the whole of their visit last week questioning them very aggresivly, as to who he was, where he was from, why they hadn't told him about it etc etc.
I have spoken to xp who denies it all, but I know it is true as he keeps changing his story, and he has actually said to me that he knows I have a new bloke.
Anyhow, this morning I saw xp and told him that I thought he should apologise to the kids and make sure he never put them in such a position again.
He told me I couldn't tell him what to do, and that he wasn't going to apologise as the kids were lying.
I now feel awful about sending them there at all, and although I wouldn't stop them from going if they wanted to go, I am wondering wether I should now at least give them the option to not go if they don't want to.
I am pretty sure that if I do this then ds will stop going at all, and that the dd's may possibly no longer go overnight.
Obviously this will mean that I will then not have any break at all, but that is not my top priority at the moment.
WWYD ??
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Should I tell the dc that they don't have to see their dad if they don't want to ??
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IllegallyBrunette · 22/09/2008 13:52
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