fm's x is still being a t**t (rant sorry)

[fransmom]

i had to lay the law down to him today about things that are basic common sense., such as not using the phone whilst he is driving - (i was out with dd a couple of days ago and she saw a driver using his phone whilst driving - the first thing she said? daddy does that)he keeps smiling at me, like i'm not being serious. er, yes i am you unmentionable pillock, it's dd's life at risk if you do that. then i tell him that if he can't be responsible, i will take him to a contact centre where he will learn about responsibility. so then he gets all belligerent and he says"well, if you want to go donw that route, lwete's do it"

whta's he expect? i am no longer going to be a bloody doormat for him.

last night he turns round and says that i am going out with the lads so can i phone dd earlier? fine, not a problem for me. then when he finds out i was going to a friend's birthday party and would be out in town, he phones up later and changes his story to.... [sarcastic lol]

i am actually going out with someone (meaning a girl) so i didn't want it to be awkward. you prat. i don't care, why tell ne and then change it? why bother telling me at all? now the prat got me overthingking again. iknow exactly why he did it - to try and ruin my night out. did he? did he heck!!!

[charliecat]

He wants you to care. My x does similar. Also common sense lacks somewhat. Kids came in stinking of smoke earlier

[fransmom]

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dd does sometimes. have told him about this but he still ignores it. i don't smoke either so it's really noticeable then isn't it?

tho i think the comment about x's lacking in common sense somewhat is a vast understatement lol

[IllegallyBrunette]

My xp also does this the same. He smokes around the kids when I have asked him not too and feeds them shite.

He also wants me to be interested. The other day he said 'what time are you bringing the kids round because I have to go somewhere before that'

big pause whilst he waits for me to ask where he is going LOL.

Like i give a stuff.

[fransmom]

lol x is the same, as if i want to know. the only time i want to know anything is if it impacts on dd's time with him, that's the current argument, he told me that he was goingt o see bank manger today, when he was supposed to be seeing dd, he had already asked his dad (70+) to look after her and couldn't understand why i was being funny