Maybe I'm being unreasonable...I need to write this down though and would appreciate some feedback.
I split with my ex about 18 months ago, while I was expecting our child.
He was abusive and since then we have avoided having much to do with him - he hasn't seen his child, that was his decision - I don't know why.
I've not named him to the CSA, for fear of him harrassing us. So he pays nothing either.
I've moved house (not far, same town) since then and would rather he didn't know where we are, just for my own sense of freedom more than anything. I am not sure if he would bother trying to find us.
I rang the council this morning to ask whether I can be on the electoral roll yet not listed for the public to see (as you can inspect it at the council offices)
She said no, basically I have to have an injunction before they will consider not publishing my name.
So because of this man I don't dare put my name on it.
This seems really wrong to me - I always, always vote in elections and I thought they wanted people to. It isn't right surely to disenfranchise women with abusive ex partners...unless perhaps our judgment is seen as so suspect that our vote might be unhelpful!
(Perhaps true in my case!)
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InaMalina · 12/08/2008 08:21
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