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Pregnant and feeling lonely

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choccypuddin Sat 26-Jul-08 15:02:21

I am almost 28 weeks pregnant. My babys father left me at 12 weeks pregnant sayin he didnt want anything to do with me or the baby. He as been back and forth since currently we are not in contact. I am feeling lonely and lookin for someone to chat to

charlotte121 Sat 26-Jul-08 17:21:30

Heya choccy, ur not alone. I went through exactly the same. When i was pregant with ds me and my ex were constantly splitting up and then making up. It was horrible and the constant fighting was really destressing and as a consiquece now ds gets particually upset when people are arguing and tensions are high.

I then fell pregnant again when ds was only 3 months old and further down the line in the pregnancy me and their dad split up. It was so hard getting through each day and some days were fine.... others were dire!

To be honest this guy sounds a bit like a pleb (as my ex was) hes happy enough to jump into bed with you but isnt going to take responsibilty of his actions and be a father. Just keep remembering that you are better of with out him and can do alot better. You will have the baby all to yourself and once he/she is here you will be totally besotted!!! As for you ex just try and move on with out him. Its alot easier if he is messing you around now to just cut your ties with him. My ex frits in and out when he pleases and hardly see's dd... only see's ds. I wish he would disapear compleetly but alas he wont. Anyways just remember you have us lot on here to chat to. All i ever do is moan and they still seem to talk to me!!! Keep you chin up.... hugs!!! Char x

charlotte121 Sat 26-Jul-08 17:22:17

By the way if you still need to chat i'll keep checking on this thread

glitterfairy Sat 26-Jul-08 17:29:00

Have you got any friends or family about? if so ring them and get them to come over or go over to them. Socialising always helps.

StealthPolarBear Sat 26-Jul-08 17:52:30

Where are you? Have you looked at MN local?
You;re in the right place for mindless chat, although I think the weather has meant it's been a slow day.

choccypuddin Sat 26-Jul-08 18:24:18

Thanks for your advice. I got a good family for support and some days i cope better than others. Nice to know i not alone. I have had to leave work early and go on the club as i work with the babys father and found this hard so i get bored stiff at home.

charlotte121 Sat 26-Jul-08 20:02:41

Oh that is a bit tricky then. I know what you mean. im home all day and you have too much time to think. Make sure you get out each day... i stay cooped up in my flat for days and end up getting depressed.
Will ur ex still be where you work when you go back after having the baby? Have you considered looking for another job if he is? Just remember your not alone.

choccypuddin Sat 26-Jul-08 20:29:41

Yes my ex will still be working their. He is my manager, i got myself in an awful mess. But we learn from our mistakes and he as given me the best present in the whole world and thats my baby. I will be looking for a different job and probably part time

charlotte121 Sat 26-Jul-08 21:55:26

Your very right... he has given u the best thing in the world. You might find that this will point your life in a compleetly new direction and change it for the better. Good luck. you know where we are if you need us! X

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