Last year I went on holiday on my own my then four year old son. We went with a company for single parents to Tunisia. The holiday wasn't easy partly because we didn't arrive till 2am and in retrospect he was too young for that. He also didn't like the food and has always been quite fussy.
All in all he loved the holiday though and it was a good break for us.
What I found really hard though was that despite everyone being a single parent, my son was amonst the youngest there and he found the staying up late (we all ate together about 8pm each evening) really difficult as he is used to going to bed early. It was also all new to him. He is normally a really well behaved child, perfect for his age although he is lively he is really good most of the time. On the holiday though because of things he wasn't used to such as having to sit in a restaurant at 8pm and not run around he did play up and was on occasion quite a handful. For example at mealtimes, the children were supposed to sit at separate tables to the adults. At four he found this quite difficult.
Because of this other people on the holiday made comments. One said I think well meaning 'have you ever seen supernanny?'. The only other woman with a four year old quickly paired off with a man and despite our children really hitting it off and her initially being really friendly, completely distanced herself from us and wouldn't let her son play with mine. I know she saw him as unruly and me not disciplining him but I was really hurt for my son.
I felt that although my son was not on good behaviour on the holiday that it was hard for him. The woman who had a four year old put her son to bed for 2 hours each day alone in her hotel room while she went to sunbathe so that she could then keep him up till midnight. Of course I wouldn't have done that but then had the aftermath of a tired child in the evening and we had to leave at 9pm in the evenings.
Anyway, this year I want to take my son away again as he would love it and is a bit older. I may go with the same company and would go somewhere less far. I am more aware of his limitations as well but am still really hurt by the insinuations that I had an impossible child from last year's holiday.
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alice123 · 31/05/2008 23:28
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