My XP thinks we ought to occasionally do stuff/ have a day out with DS together. We had a very volatile relationship when we were a couple (with abuse from him at times). Since splitting up it has continued to be very up and down but we have now reached a stage where he has regular daytime contact with DS and we manage to be civil to each other at handovers.
Does anyone think DS (only 2.5) would benefit from spending time with us both together or find it confusing? I must admit I don't quite understand/am slightly suspicious of XP's motivations for suggesting that we do this (esp. as he's the one who's 'moved on' with new partner).
(We did have an afternoon out as a 'family' a couple of months ago that went ok (although my face was aching afterwards from grinning and bearing it). DS seemed to enjoy it but don't think it was massively life enhancing for him.)
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snotbuster · 24/05/2008 12:28
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