Sorry, bit of a moan from me and dont know what to do anymore-any advice appreciated?
Today, for the first time my ds wanted to see a friend of his [last weekend was no-go for me as we were busy and next weekend seemed too far into the future for my 7 yr old. so I arranged for him to see his friend this morning and for my ex to pick him up afterwards.
I thought seeing as though there are plenty of weekends when I have the children and they see thier friends why not do it during his dads contact time. So I thought it fair.
My ex lives 10 miles away [in london so can take an hour travelling time!?]and as he dosnt know the mum of the friend thought it best I take him. But ex kicked up a fuss about it saying it was his time to be with the kids [he took our daughter off on her own today] it was only for 2.5 hours, and said it wasnt right. what do you think? [i am having another one of my sons round to my house next weekend-wasnt on purpose etc].
so do i stop my son having any social life every other weekend because his dad dosnt like it [this was the first time its ever happened]?!
what do you think, what do you do? Ex sees them fortnightly sat-sun, I work f/t so I barley get to see the children either!
We are not friends, he's just moved in with new partner [we split 2 years ago as he went to work one day and never came back]who is not allowed to come near me due to abusive texts etc which leads me on to another point- when do you get used to and how do you get used to your ex's partner slobbering over your kids when they have nothing but make things 100 times worse and been an absolute ##### to you?? please someone help-how do I cope with this?? I just feel like upping sticks and moving far away to get rid of the stress of it all.
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should kids see their friends in dads contact time?
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treaclepudd · 17/05/2008 18:16
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