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stop me being infatuated with a bloke

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chocolatespiders · 15/05/2008 21:30

been chatting for a few weeks, and i find my self feeling sick waiting for him to text me....

FGS i have been on my own for 3 years, and have mostly been happy with this so what has happened to me, i have chatted to blokes before and havent felt like this about them they normally say something wired and that puts me off...

i need to be strong and have some control over this.....

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littlewoman · 15/05/2008 21:56

But it's quite a nice feeling, so long as he's worth being infatuated with

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chocolatespiders · 16/05/2008 12:03

The way i feel is very very strange...

spoke to him last night till 2am (luckily didnt have to get up for work today)
since wednesday i have felt relly sick like a pain in my tummy. and i have not eaten much and when i have eaten i have had to force myself.. tried to have a smootie earlier but i could hardly swallow it

what is wrong with me?

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littlewoman · 16/05/2008 12:07

So long as you aren't physically unwell, I would say it's an adrenaline thing perhaps. When my 1st XH used to start kissing me, it would literally make me feel sick from excitement (a little later, it just made me feel sick, but ho-hum, poor man).

Excitement and newness, I would put it down to.

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littlewoman · 16/05/2008 12:07

And anticipation

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chocolatespiders · 16/05/2008 12:15

very funny little women i like that!!!!!!

thanks for replying

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charliecat · 16/05/2008 12:26

imagine him on the loo with his trousers round his ankles reaching for the loo paper;)
have you plans to meet?

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zippitippitoes · 16/05/2008 12:28

sounds like exvcitement which isnt really a bad thing

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Pinkchampagne · 16/05/2008 12:32

Sounds like the excitement of a new relationship to me! Enjoy it!

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chocolatespiders · 16/05/2008 12:36

yes we have in a few weeks. this weekend out as i am at the moon walk.....

next weekend i am busy... so looks like it will be a few weeks time

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zippitippitoes · 16/05/2008 12:39

the onlky thing i would say is dont get too keen before meeting as it may all go pear shaped when you sit next to him

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Pinkchampagne · 16/05/2008 12:39

Very true, zippi!

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chocolatespiders · 16/05/2008 14:32

yep you are right i will tighten up the reins on myself... but it has been a long time since i have been remotely intrested in a man, so that is progress in its self!!!!

oh well if the only thing that comes out of it is losing a few pounds then great

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