Xp took dd (11 months)out on his own with his son for the first time since we split and lied to me about where he was taking her. He knows I don't want her around his friends because they all drink to excess, including him. So he said he was taking her to his mum's, which he did, (I called to check) and said he'd have her back by around 3.30 and we'd all take her to the park. At 4.15 I called him and he said he was round these friends' house. I knew when he was taking her that he was lying about something, but after calling him and speaking to him at his mum's house I assumed I'd misjudged him and he had been telling the truth after all, but now I realise he had been planning all along to take her to his friends. I know I can't stop him seeing who he wants when he has her, but is there anything I can do about the fact that he deliberately lied to me about where she would be and with whom? This is just the first time he's had her on his own, how the hell can I trust him with her in the future? I have been on the floor this afternoon, just can't stop crying. She's back with me now, but I really need to let him know he just can't do this. He came back with his son so I couldn't say a word, but I'm sure he'll try to talk about it later when his son's gone to bed. I just want to tell him he can't see dd, I am so angry and upset that he's done this. Sorry, I'm ranting on, but I can't believe it's got to this so soon.
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