My boyfriend and I have split up after being together for 2 years, since my son was 1. He's lived with us for the last year and although my son doesn't call him dad he's very close to him, especially as his real dad has never been in the picture. The break up wasn't very nice for me, my ex decided he "couldn't be bothered anymore" with our relationship after arguing for the last month. It's been 2 years and 1 month or arguments was enough for him to end it. He messed me around a bit before really deciding he wasn't motivated. He does love my son a lot though and my son loves him. We've moved back with my parents, 3 hours away, but we'll have to go back to pack all our stuff. My son asks where he is every day and says he wants to see him, sometimes it's fleeting but it's hard to hear him sad. When I go back next do I let my son see my ex or will that make it worse? He has been like a dad to him and cutting him out cold turkey feels harsh but I just don't know what's right for my son. Any advice or similar experience?
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Break up with partner - not my son's dad, how do I handle it?
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Mummabear03 · 07/04/2021 21:05
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