Any tips for dealing with the aftermath of a toddler's "play" as a single parent of 2?
She is at home with me 2 days mon-fri as I work part-time. Today has been horrendous. Between the school runs, she has made a bomb site of the garden, conservatory, lounge, hallway and 3 bedrooms. Toys everywhere. Shoes taken from the shoe rack in the hall and thrown everywhere. Her pyjama drawer emptied. Clothes everywhere. Her sister's Barbie Dream House contents- everywhere.
Finished cooking dinner and eating, exhausted after she was up in the night and I just want to cry. She's grumpy anf tired and refuses to help me tidy up all her mess (she's 34 months).
Eldest DC is playing on his tablet happily- he's no bother but I'm finding no time to read or do spellings with him.
Try to do lots of activities during the day with her but the minute my back is turned when I'm doing washing, making lunch, she's feral and completely bull dozes the house.
When Ex DH was here until recently, one of us would get her to tidy up with us whilst the other did homework with DC1, we then shared the bed times, one child each.
But on my own, it's horrific. Just put DC2 to bed and I'm falling asleep on my bed trying to muster up the energy to read Harry Potter to DC1.
Guessing it will get easier as DC2 gets older and she eventually starts school. I've thought about working more hours to give me a bit of head space too.
But what do I do in the mean time? Sometimes, I think she's going to finish me off!
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Singleslummy · 29/03/2021 19:45
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