Just after some advice, there is a contact order in place but that now has to change as ex has changed jobs, he doesnt have set shifts he gets given shifts that are available for a month and picks what he wants. Ive asked him when this happens he wont tell me. So he changed his days starting from this week to a fri and sun. Ive asked again tonight when his shift patterns change to be told no that there is 3 weeks left of the month and if next month ds isnt available for the day he wants i have to choose another day. What do i do?? I cant sit around wondering when he can have ds.
He is very controlling has been towards me and i feel this is another way to control. Im just so fed up of it all my mental health isnt great, ive had so much abuse off him and his "friend" i cant take much more.
Thanks for any advice given
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Nanny15 · 12/01/2021 21:29
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